The Tridecadal Korean (astralblue) wrote,
The Tridecadal Korean
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Goodness.

Just finished a heated convo with a female friend in Korea (some of you might remember her as the me me me chick), who aggravated me beyond imagination.

What the fuck is up with this It disgusts me when other people objectify and treat me as a (sex) toy, but I have no problem objectifying, toying with, and taking advantage of guys 'cause it keeps me amused mentality?  This isn't like the first time I've seen that nonsense either; in fact, I had to lower several other chicks' rank from friends to acquaintances because their attitude like that angered me and turned me off so much that it'd be bad for my mental health if I continued to deem them as close friends and cared about them.

I seriously don't get it.  Why are they so hypocritical and two-faced?!  And no, immaturity isn't the only answer -- some of them are even older than I am.

Augh.  @%!$%!@(#*^!@*(#^%!@(*!!!!

P.S. Another interesting fact -- they're almost invariably attractive.


Edit: gtonizuka commented:

Hypocracy seems to be the en vogue thing of recent times...hell, just take a look at the US Government. =p. I can't stand that shit....everyone's a hypocrite from time to time, but it's the lack of admission of that which I can't stand.

This is indeed truer than anything else could get.  'Cause it usually goes like this, just as it did today:

It disgusts me when other people objectify and treat me as a (sex) toy,

This, they say voluntarily.

... but I have no problem objectifying, toying with, and taking advantage of guys 'cause it keeps me amused.

This, I have to corner them to make them admit.

And you know what is even sadder about this shit?  Because it happens all too often, it sometimes makes me even doubt my feminist/equal-opportunity/equal-right-advocate friends who I (wanna) believe are sound-minded.  And that makes me feel bad.  Makes me feel guilty.

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