“It's an interesting situation… I had always been looking outward for love. Then, after a series of life experiences, I focused inward and began to learn how to really love myself. At that point love found me. They say that your true love comes when you least expect it. I disagree. I believe that your true love comes when you are ready. It just so happens that most people are ready when they don't expect it. ^_^”
― Bertrand “BJ” Wooden, aka calmkakashi,
in the announcement of his engagement
Yes, the true love finds us once we become ready; yes, an important part of becoming ready is none other than to learn to love ourselves.
Well said, BJ, well said…. :-)